This post is to give a notification to someone about some things which she has done and is hurting a good friend. well, if thats how friends treat each other anyway.

I wanted to talk to you personally about this thing and how you're hurting this person but for the sake of maintaining "friendship", I think I'll just say it here. You're bound to be angry after reading this but I hope you're angry with yourself too. If ever this anger is directed at any of us, which I trust will not be the case, then this friendship is going to be very hard to maintain, because it means you really don't understand what we are thinking. If I don't bring this up, there's going to be alot of "hahaha" and what not but I don't think it's nice to keep a facade on the real impressions of you. Perhaps I think there is still hope between you guys that is why I think it is better to clear the air, step on a bit of tail, but ultimately gain something from it.

Basically, I'm not sure if you are aware of it, but many of your actions have been very selfish to this other person. Maybe on your part, you might be thinking that this person is very nice and all, wouldn't mind you taking abit of advantage here and there. It could be the case, but unfortunately, the fact is, this person has been very hurt by many of your actions. It is not just recently that this has been happening. It's been going on for quite awhile. And the person has been very forgiving and not making things awkward.

But maybe it might not be entirely your fault too. Because this is normal for you and you really had no idea it was making others unhappy. But it really is making the person very upset, and angry at that too.

The friendship of yesteryears is actually pretty much gone already. The good times have been reduced to something of lower substance. But despite it all, I feel you should know what is happening because it makes me angry to see this happening to my friend too.

Perhaps you can make amends.

Self pity is not going to save a friendship here. Saving face is not going to either. For me, it doesn't really matter. But it's because I can never make her come to her senses fully enough and being the nice person she is, tolerating all these nonsense of yours, that this friendship might still be salvaged. I have actually advised her against it because I've observed many selfish incidents, but she's an angel and what can I say?

When it comes to this type of things, I'm pretty open about it. When things get serious, we should just settle it. I won't be thinking bad things about you all day long and whatever. I trust we are all adults and I won't sneakily laugh or snigger behind your back. I just hope you'll treat her better now.