I was talking to my aunt and cousin that day..

aunt said my complexion was good. it's quite a gay statement for a guy, but hey, it's great! hahaha.. so I told her that skin good no use.. face not handsome also don't matter what..

then she and my cuz felt so strongly about this point they kept rambling on about it. "noo noo.. girls don't look at handsome or not.. they go for charm.. in the long run thats what they look for.."

I could see the passion in their eyes in trying to defend this point.. but what if.. I think I'm not charming also leh? anyway, I got a scolding from my cuz about something.. sometimes you just need a tight slap to really feel the impact.. ming zhi zai yan qian, yi ba zhang fei bu ke.. piak de yi sheng, tian shang yun piao kai, wan mei de tong lu shan shan de fa liang.. and if you dun understand what I'm saying.. don't worry.. my chinese sucks..