hahaha.. I remember when I went to USA.. a few pple tot I would find prostitute over there..

but it's not like in the movies where sex is just a breath away lah. it's a nice cool place. and whore town is prob just a small little area in a country many times the size of Singapore. not sure what's the link with lotsa sex and that place.. hahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha..

most importantly.. I don't get the link with horniness and promiscuity.. it sure seems easy to link them without words.. but actually.. if you think about it.. it's the same as girls liking chocolates..

just cuz they like doesn't mean they will eat it 3 meals a day and grab any brand of chocolate off the shelf..

what's the bad connotation attached to sex? just cuz we can't learn driving till 21 doesn't mean it's bad or we can't talk about wanting to learn to drive.. talking about how I would fantasize driving a bmw dun mean I go steal one with a key in it and drive off..

tsk tsk tsk. it's a weird conception of sex in our society here. it probably is linked in part to our low birth rates anyway. don't you agree it's better for our population if pple actually embraced sex with total goodness. don't you wanna make it so enjoyable and unshyed away from that you can't wait to grab your spouse the minute you step home?

there's alot of pple bonking several girls out there giving it a demeaning connotation. whereas many goody boys declare themselves virgins with pride. the great divide of good and notti boys is therefore clearly drawn..

it's not a matter of sex after marriage or premarital sex. there's no right or wrong. it's all personal preference. but definitely. I truly believe sex at any moment - way before marriage, on marriage night, or when you're both old and shagging at 1rpm, is really only commitable if very strong feelings are involved. I don't mean single guys here. I'm referring to guys with commitments to gals, per se. single guys having one night stands? I'm not going into that now. I ain't a stud capable of getting that anyway. but I don't label them as baddies too cuz well, guys will be guys and again, it's personal preference.

So what I'm trying to say is that, guys like me, as crude as we might seem. But that don't mean we'll bonk any gal without a tot. All things held constant, assuming I really can bed any girl I want that is. It's hard to explain, but just cuz I feel strongly about sex doesn't mean I'll jump into it without feelings. ya get my drift here? Or should I say, if I don't have a chocolate craving for whatever reason(be it depression or hunger, etc..), I won't gobble them down at the sight of them.

so basically, feelings = sex.

no, sex is not = feelings.

you need feelings to have sex. you don't need sex to have feelings.

see, it's the bad guys asking for it from guillible girls in a proof of love that gives it bad name.

I'll be honest here. I'll shy away from a girl if I fall for her, but she's some sex-phobic.. by that I mean "sex is evil.. sex is bad.. we only need sex in missionary position to make babies.. nothing more.. nothing less.. keep your pants on"

I wanna make love to my wife every night..